Posts tagged IT’S

1.  You have to have a burning desire to change your ways: 

Look, what you’ve been DOING now hasn’t been working and what you ARE now is the results of bad habits.  How bad do you want to change your life with women?  As a “shy” Asian guy you must accept the fact that you need to make a change.   And making change can be..let me take it back..it will be one of the most difficult periods you will ever go through.  The learning curve can take anywhere between 6 months to 2 years and that’s practicing 5 days a week.  It’s like detox.  There will be good days and absolutely awful days.  But if you have that desire..you will succeed.

2.  Destroy Negative thoughts

As in everything else in life, negative thoughts are a no no.  Asian men seem harbor a lot of negativity towards women…I did. 

“She’s racist” – Who cares?  It does exist and it will always exist.  This negative thought is blown way out of proportion.  There are a lot of websites out there protesting against racism on Asians.  And I would bet that any guys running those sites are pathetic with women.

“Can’t I just be myself?” – When did being yourself become negative?  It becomes negative if you’re not getting anywhere with women.  You are yourself from your experiences from the past.  Your personality has been forged through the years and your social skills have been learned maybe through movies, television, etc.  And it’s all wrong.  Now it’s the time to unlearn the bad and learn not what’s good, but how to be a man again.

“I’m short” – This is a common mental barrier among Asian men.  Are women attracted to things like height and fame?  You bet.  But what you need to understand is that inner confidence and game rules all.  Not because it will get you more women, but it transform your train of thought and you won’t worry about any negative thoughts.  You get it?

3.  Get in touch with your Alpha

Trying to impress women with your intelligence will get you nowhere.  Impressing women with your animal instincts is better.  It’s all about escalation buddy.  Making it known that you are a sexual being and getting out of the “friend zone”.  It’s better to go bold then to be passive. No doubt.  Taking the next and going for the kiss is a rite of passage that every man must go through.  Like I said.  The process is not easy.

4.  Learn and Get Out and Practice

Whether you’re learning from a book or a boot camp I want to emphasize to learn from actual Asian seduction coaches.  They have been through your shoes and can give you the best support.  In other words, they know you’re pain.  But going out in field and practicing is what separates the boys from men.  If you go out everyday expect at least 6 months of hard work…minimum.  But I’m with you brother, I’ve been through hell and back and I’ve seen the light and want to see you there.